Hair Role Reversal
Our bride to be said it perfectly for me.....when not wearing a wig I totally avoided the mirrors, very few times (even after many years) have I been ok with the way I look :sad:
my wigs are such an extension of me, my look, my personality and who I am, I am a total woman in a wig. I mean it’s probably like a woman who has lost one or both her beasts, yes she’s still very much a women but I’m guessing she doesn’t look at herself in the mirror eather. To someone on the outside looking in it might not be the same I mean how does one compare breasts to hair, well walk a mile in my shoes and you’ll see.
I have shared with
how it still is upsetting for me to see myself without hair and after nearing 40 years I do still cry....I miss my full thick hair....having my boyfriend run his hands thru my hair....spending hours before prom or even my first wedding playing with it, trying to get just the right look...but.....now don’t get me wrong there are a few (very few) upsides to my life now, the first and most important to me is the three of you as well as all my sisters here, you truly know how I feel. I don’t mean to exclude Alex or any of the other men here but for a women her hair, our crowning glory, IS who we are. Also being where I am right now I can have that thick beautiful hair again just with a few restrictions, I cannot just throw my hair up into a messy bun like I did as a teenager but.....God has a plan.